Your boyfriend and other women

Posted on 02 November 2008 by Roxana

The most difficult lessons…

….how to understand the behavior of your boyfriend towards other women. It is hard and painful, but we have to accept his peculiarities regarding women around him.

Men are extremely different and easily move from insensivity to sadism. Many times men just play, because he knows exactly what our reaction to it will be, and that we sense the danger that another woman represents. But the can also just check the field..to see if some infidelity could fit in.

We chose four classical examples. I order for you to understand (if you can) how does the man beside you thinks.

Flirting with the waitresses

Men adore waitresses because they are cute and they bring them good food and drinks.

Their company is pleasant, the food is good, the girl is pretty, and this is how your heart begins to pound harder in your chest only thinking of your boyfriend`s where about. By the way..do you have any idea where could he be now?

Just because the atmosphere is a very relaxed one, he flirts, even with you beside him.

It`s not really the proof that he tends to fail you, but only his way to react to this kind of situation.

It`s frustrating thinking about it, but men don`t use their “appropriate” head. I say it`s ok to forgive him a couple of times, but is important to draw his attention towards this thing, and if things get worse, you have nothing to do then “say goodbye”

Always talking about other girls

He probably knows that this bothers you and he only does this to play with your mind.

Or he tends to blame you for his fails (you are to blame that he is not dating Jennifer Aniston or Jessica Alba or both at the same time)

Regardless of the degree of commitment of your relationship (first three months or thirty years)

This kind of messages are clear. He feels frustrated and at the first sign of having something better, you will get dumped. This type of man is easily to figure out. As long as he doesn`t have something to blackmail you with, he won`t treat you with respect and if you will want to leave him, threaten him that you will, and then see his reactions and act as needed.

He keeps souvenirs from former girlfriends

His apartment looks like an antique shop. Pictures, decorations, objects, everything you want and don`t containing the fingerprint of his former girlfriends. If you find any indecent memories of their relationship, the is clear: you have to deal with a lecherous man who tends to keep trophies.

This or he attaches to things and persons so much that he has a hard time getting rid of them. Or he is a psycho…but this is from the movie you saw last night.

He is seeing other women because of you

Of course! It is the perfect excuse when talking about infidelity. “I couldn’t have done this…you pushed me to it!”. I say it`s time for you to say goodbye to him. No matter how much you change a person, you just can`t change his fundamental values. It is clearly you have no chance!

Tags: boyfriend, relationship